According to David, he wrote to Ted in prison shortly after. In Ted’s response, which David shared with The New York Times in 2025, he called being imprisoned for life “a fate far worse than death.” He added, “The real reason why you informed on me is that you hate me.”
Ted continued in the letter, “And what you hate me for is your own gnawing sense of inferiority. Your suspicion that I was the Unabomber at last gave you your opportunity to get a crushing revenge on big brother for being smarter and more capable than you are.”
David eventually apologized to Ted, often deposited money into his commissary account and sent him books, David shared. Over nearly three decades, he also kept sending letters reminiscing on their shared memories. Ted rarely replied and refused to put David on his visitors list, per the publication.
David kept trying, especially after he learned, at the end of 2021, that Ted had terminal cancer. “I needed to tell him that I loved him, and to recount the ways in which he’d had a positive influence on my life,” David told the outlet. “But I knew Ted had a very stubborn side, making it highly unlikely I would ever hear from him.”
Where is David Kaczynski now?
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David and his wife retired from their jobs at a Buddhist monastery in Woodstock, N.Y. in 2015, per The New York Times. After doing so, they moved to Texas, according to the publication.
According to the Omega Insтιтute for Holistic Studies, David has given several lectures on mental illness over the years. In 2016, David also wrote a memoir тιтled Every Last Tie: A Memoir of the Unabomber and His Family.
In the months after Ted’s arrest, David and his wife tried to connect with some of Ted’s victims to apologize and help them cope. While most survivors didn’t respond, David told The New York Times and CBS News that he connected with one survivor, Gary Wright, who was injured in 1987 when Ted left a bomb outside of his computer store.
“We were both on healing journeys of a sort and we were both looking for a path forward, and we had so much in common,” David told CBS News.
Wright said he had a long time to process what happened to him when David reached out and that he had redefined for himself what forgiveness was. He added, “One family doesn’t have to suffer forever because of the act of one.”
David and Wright have kept in touch over the years. Not long after Ted’s death in 2023, the pair appeared at a Yom Kippur event together in California, where David reportedly said he was grieving his brother’s death, according to The New York Times.
“It’s not the same maybe, but I believe in spiritual brotherhood, too,” he also said at the event, per The New York Times. “Gary is my brother in spirit.”

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